Tuesday, September 02, 2008

If Sarah is Bad Mother, Then Michelle is Bad Mother

Over the past few day, Governor Palin has been accused of being a bad mother because her 17 year old daughter, Bristol, is pregnant and unmarried. It's been almost exclusively Democrats and Liberals who have made the accusations. The same bunch which has for decades promoted casual sex are now outraged by causal sex.

Palin is also accused of abandoning her Down's Syndrome child for the glitz and glamour of the campaign road. The very women who have championed the SuperMom who can have career and family are saying Sarah should stay home with her 'sick' child. My bet is those women are the same as those my mother encountered when out with the child me. Those women would tell Mom that she really shouldn't bring 'that' out in public.

So, Sarah Palin is a bad mother.

But, Michelle Obama is a good mother because she has a career and a family. We haven't seen much of Mickey O because, we are to believe, because she has two little girls to care for. Truth is, her outspokenness and controversial views were becoming a liability to Barry O. She was shelved and trotted out for the convention in Denver.

Mickey O gave an interview to Babble Magazine (oh, how appropriate can ya get) in which she described how she juggles family and work.

Michelle Obama

Anita Doberman

Republicans have long fought to be the party of "family values," but Michelle Obama believes Democrats are ready to take on the pro-family mantle – and to back up that talk with action.

Despite a grueling travel schedule, Michelle Obama is first and foremost a devoted parent. She's intent on keeping her children grounded while also supporting her husband's campaign and withstanding intense media scrutiny.

Babble caught up with Mrs. Obama as she visited with working mothers in Virginia. She came off as honest, down-to-earth and proud to be a wife, mother and leader in her own right. We spoke about work-home balance, her secret vice, and why she feels a victory for her husband is a victory for the American family. — Anita Doberman

As a working mother, what sort of sacrifices have you made for your children and your husband? What sacrifices has he made for you?

As every working mother understands, there will always be hard choices that must be made to keep our families happy and whole. But I don't see these choices as sacrifices. I'm happy to make them. Someone has to be focusing on the kids, making them feel safe and grounded, and that's me. And I love that job.

Everything that Barack and I do — all the choices we make — are for the benefit of our two little girls. Barack spends the majority of his time away from his family, on the road, because he is determined to change Washington, so that instead of just talking about family values, we actually implement policies that value families.

He is working every day so that our children — and all of our country's children — will grow up healthy and safe, in a world where they can pursue their dreams without anything standing in their way.

How have you managed to balance career and family?

Like the women I've met across the country, I play many different roles. I'm a wife, a working woman, a daughter, a sister, and a best friend. But most importantly, I'm a mom. No matter where I am — at work, on the campaign trail, you name it — my girls are always on my mind.

Finding a balance between all of these roles is something that I've dealt with throughout my marriage. Barack and I know that we're lucky to have access to the resources we need to hold it together during all of this wonderful chaos.

And Barack and I know that we're particularly lucky to have the greatest resource anyone could have — my mother, who lives nearby and stays with the girls when I'm on the road for my husband. But we know that many families across America aren't that lucky. That's why as president, Barack will make supporting families a priority.
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What is the hardest thing you have to do as a mother, especially on the campaign trail?

My staff has been excellent about honoring my commitment to my girls. Still, spending time out on the road instead of at home with them is the hardest thing about campaigning. Whether I'm in Chicago or on the road, they're always on my mind, from the moment I wake up in the morning until right before I fall asleep at night.

What does your husband depend on you for?

Holding everything together and keeping our home in order while he's away. We're each other's best friends and closest advisors.

How are the children taking all the changes, and do you try to insulate them?

Barack and I are very proud of the way the girls have handled themselves during this campaign. Luckily, they're still at an age where they're not that concerned with what's happening with the campaign. When they come home in the afternoons, they don't want to know how my day went — it's more like: "Let me tell you what happened at camp today." There are these two wonderful little people who run around our house and keep us grounded.

We protect them the best as we can. We're figuring it out. We've gotten some great advice from people like Hillary Clinton and Tipper Gore, who have been in this situation before and handled it wonderfully.
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Michelle Obama leaves her children at home! Oh, under the care of someone not their parent, of course. But it's all okay because Michelle feels bad about it. Her daughters are not old enough to be in 'a family way'. Someday they may be. But instead of getting love and support from Mom and Dad, they may get the phone number of the nearest Planned Parenthood approved abortion clinic. Barry and Mickey don't want their kids 'punished' with a child of their own.

Other than that, the maternal story of Michelle Obama and Sarah Palin sound pretty much alike.




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3 comments:

Anonymous said...

So what are you saying?

Working mother, Michelle Obama = bad?

Working mother, Sarah Palin = good?

You're, again contradicting yourself.

suek said...

Not too hard to figure out, anonymous...

Working mother, Michelle Obama = personal choice

Working mother, Sarah Palin = personal choice

Stay the heck out of their personal family affairs.

Indigo Red said...

Exactly, suek.

Liberals... ya gotta hand it to 'em!

Really, you've got to hand it to them because they're just not going to get by themselves.